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Frayed hem tiered skirt

Its perfectly acceptable to team your jeans with a pair best white trainers but for a more office appropriate look try preppy leather loafers or wedge sandals for a 1970s vibe, says Julie

We've crafted it with a digitally printed purple ombre skirt that fans out into a full butterfly wingspan, complete with elastic finger loops so the wings follow your every move

But you, my good man, you stand out in your gray suit

Keep accessories minimal to let the sparkle take center stage

Friend, its the 21st century, we are making the wedding rules and that means if you dont want to wear a dress you dont have to